From the Rabbi

For our second week of family-oriented discussion videos, I invite you to consider the first commandment given to the Israelite people in this week’s parashah, Bo: the commandment to create a new calendar, to start marking time in a new way. What are the important calendars and dates to you and your family, and how does the way you use your calendar express slavery or freedom?

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Va’era 5781 (1/15/2021) Given by Nona Solomon-Burt, MLK Guest Speaker

Shabbat Shalom,  

This week Parsha is Va’era, which is from Exodus chapter 6 through Chapter 9. It is also Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Birthday shabbat.  

We are in the beginning of Exodus – the Israelites are still slaves in Egypt. God commands Moses to confront Pharaoh and start bringing the plagues if he will not let them go. There are many references to Moses’ speech impediment and how he believed it to be the reason he was not right for the job God was trying to give him.   

When do any of us think we are the right person for big and hard tasks?  If we believed change and things were easy, we could do them without thinking.  We forget we are not alone in those struggles. It is so helpful to remember Moses, his struggles and his doubts as we as a group, a society, a country, take on really big tasks.  

For decades, the civil rights movement has invoked the Exodus story. We tend to think of liberation as for Bipoc, but white people can also be free from white supremacy and racist ideologies. White people in power chose to ignore the demands of bipoc people such as stopping police brutality, giving more mental health and health care services. 

Breaking down the walls of white supremacy is so much harder than it sounds but it is possible if white allies really take the time to listen to the demands of black people. When the walls of white supremacy are so big, listening and taking action are the most important things to be focusing on. It is a wall of ignorance, a wall of assumed reality that is missing the reality of Black people’s experience.   

Jews and black people have one thing in common, years and years of oppression and feeling like they are less than. Jewish and Black people have been living in fear for over 400 years. Hate crimes, defacing historical figures, name calling, weird looks. For Jews it was hard before the Holocaust, after the Holocaust most people realized that Jews deserve the same respect and treatment as everyone else.   

One big difference is at the end of the day most Jews still get to have their white skin which means they still have so much privilege that they can use to help the group that still is oppressed. They are still white, with privilege, the ability to walk away from the police alive, not being followed in a store.  Black Jews still don’t have the privilege of feeling free because they are still oppressed in one part of their identity. For me personally I can put the Jewish part of me aside but the black person is still there and will be there for the rest of my life.  

I am calling on this community to step up and be allies for the black lives matter movement in Eugene and Portland. People often think that being an ally means just going to protests and putting yourself in front of danger but there are so many other ways to help bipoc people. Feeding a bipoc family that needs help, donating money, helping out at events, educating your friends who might not know what to do.  

Black Unity is a great group to be involved in. Black unity does protesting, community outreach, feeds the homeless and tries to stop the sweeps, working with other groups to put on events, kids events and all sorts of other groups. Follow us on any social media to get involved. The Jewish community is good at talking about tikkun olam and repairing the world, but they definitely need to apply those values by donating more and showing up and listening to bipoc voices when in need.  Showing up no matter if it feels scary. 

I have particularly noticed the lack of Jewish presence at many protests at university park. That park is in the neighborhood of many jewish people that go to this synagogue. A lot of people went to the first protest in May but then stopped showing up and did not acknowledge their privilege either.  

It’s a privilege to not have to think about if you are going to be alive the next day. White folks get to have the birds and the bees talk but black people have to have the talk which is ‘What to do if you get pulled over.”  

When we say get out of your homes and into the streets we really mean it. Stop sitting on our privilege and start acting like you care about black lives by really showing up. When the rabbi shows up to put her body in front of black bodies it makes me hopeful, hopeful that people will start seeing how much of an impact one body makes on the movement. I hope by seeing the rabbi being out in the streets it can prompt others to join her.   

I want to acknowledge two other members of this community that also have been out on the streets protesting with Black Unity: Abby Gershenzon and Kelley Edwards. Abby has been there protesting with me since July. I appreciate them both for being alongside me on the frontlines and always putting black bodies before them. Abby and I have been to Portland since the federal officers have been there.  

Throughout the movement I have had many light bulbs moments. When I first started to protest in Portland I thought that getting tear gassed, shot at, pepperballed was making a statement and I would be accomplishing something if I went to add numbers. But there are bigger things to be doing than putting yourself in unnecessary danger. There was one specific moment for me that changed the way that I look at everything. I was talking to someone at the Red House in Portland, and they pointed out “this is a direct action, even though you are just sitting around a campfire, making sure a family doesn’t get evicted. You don’t have to get tear-gassed to make a difference.”  

Being in a movement means doing things to help such as going to food drives, buy black events, buy from black owned businesses, support black led protests or protest that benefits a person of color. These are also ways for white allies to get involved because I know from conversation that people think that being a white ally just means putting your body in danger. Protecting black bodies is so important but it could even mean defending a black person who’s being harassed online.  

A big thing that people don’t know is really helpful is when you see a person of color getting pulled over is to pull on the side of the road and take out our phone and film them so if anything happens to them there is a witness and a person filming.  There have been so many amazing things that this movement has done for Bipoc people. In Portland there has been a family who was given a new house because people raised enough money for her.  

Here in Eugene, Black Unity has organized many feeds for the homeless people and supply drives, donating money to bipoc youth and people who need it for school or rent, clothing drives, food drives and even school supply drives. This movement has brought people together because we work together to get everyone’s needs met.  

If anything this movement has taught me a lot about listening. Listening to people’s stories, listening to the demands of this movement. Even if I am a black person, listening and taking in the stories of others because they can be helpful. I can apply my learning to the community to teach others what steps you need to take to be an ally. Being a part of this movement there is so much to learn and apply to day to day life.  

The biggest thing I’ve learned and I have said this multiple times is that it’s so important is to always listen to black leadership. Listen to them at a protest, on social media, in person, at the store, anywhere. Listening through discomfort, listening through guilt, listening through disbelief. They deserve all of the recognition for the years of not taking them seriously and decrediting them. A big part of being a white ally is listening. Antiracism isn’t just saying you are not racist it’s really doing that education, listening and showing up.  

My big ask from this community is to show up. Even if it makes you feel uncomfortable a huge part of being a white ally is feeling uncomfortable because that’s how you learn. Listen and engage in conversation with the bipoc community, show up to protests, donate to a bipoc family  in need, give supplies to people who need it.  For it to be a true exodus and liberation, it has to permeate every part of life.  It is not a liberation for it to be sometimes, when it is convenient or not uncomfortable.  It has to be a life change.  It is not enough to give of your time or money when a BIPOC person stands in front of you asking you to join them or reminding you about the Racism that slips our mind. 

At the very beginning of this portion, Moses tries to refuse the task. He doesn’t want to confront Pharaoh. He says, “I can’t speak well.” And God basically says, “You have to do this anyway, and I will be with you.  

 Today the bondage of Racism holds us all captive.  We are all constrained when we accept what is, thinking we ourselves are not strong enough or can’t make enough of a difference to be noticeable.  When a few people show up to a protest they are less protected than if 100’s or 1000’s of people show up.  And those people could be you. 

So like Moses, please remember: you can do hard things. And if you step up, you will not be alone.  

Thank you, and Shabbat shalom. 

Banishing or Embracing Darkness (Nov/Dec 2020)

There is a popular children’s Chanukkah song in Israel, that goes, Banu choshech l’garesh, b’yadeinu ohr va’eish. . .” which, roughly translated would go:  “We have come to banish dark/light and fire are in our hands. . .” the song continues, emphatically exhorting us each to be a little light, driving away the darkness.

In recent years, several of my colleagues have sought to rewrite the song, for a few reasons. Though music, literature and religious texts are replete with the casual association between light and good and darkness and evil, in this day and age, many argue that the racial problematics of the “light” seeking to banish the “dark,” in this song are inexcusable. But deeper than that is the acknowledgement that light and darkness are intertwined; that as in as much as light literally brings comfort, warmth, familiarity and darkness is challenging, mysterious and unknown; we need both in our lives.

One of the laws of Hanukkah in the Mishneh Torah (Laws of Esther and Hanukkah 4:4), states that if multiple wicks in one pot of oil can join together (as in a Havdalah candle), they become “like a bonfire” and no longer fulfill the mitzvah of Hanukkah. Part of the Hanukkah experience is seeing distinct flames, interspersed with darkness. Any of us who have lit Hanukkiyot on Chanukkah can probably relate to the magic of watching the interweave of light and darkness.

You’re receiving this newsletter at a time of increasing darkness: the literal darkness of lengthening nights as Daylight Savings Times ends, and the metaphoric darkness of the unknown. We do not know what will unfold in our country in these next few months, but it will probably bring new challenges and demand new obligations from us.

This is not a darkness we can or should seek to banish. We learn from embracing the challenges and mysteries of the moment. As we face the next few months, we’ll embrace the familiar, with holiday programs and fun interactive educational events. We will also offer programming that encourages us to rise to the new challenges of this moment, embracing light and darkness together. I hope you will participate in both.

God Bless America

Rally for Democracy (November 4, 2020)

In a moment, several of our local elected officials will be greeting us stating their support for the democratic process.  

But first, I’d like to tell a story.  

It’s the story of an immigrant, a 5 year-old Jew named Yisrael Beilin, who arrived in America from Imperial Russia in September of 1893. His family was fleeing the pogroms. He grew up desperately poor in New York City, every member of the family working extra jobs throughout his childhood 

When Yisrael Beilin grew up to be the world-famous composer known as Irving Berlin, he wrote a song based on his immigrant aspirations, and on his gratitude that even through the poverty, his family had been able to find a better life in America.  His song, “God Bless America” expressed aspiration for all who struggle and strive for what America could be  

It’s had an interesting history – for many years, white supremacist groups refused to sing it, because it was written by a Jew. In recent decades, it has been appropriated by the far right. There has been a troubling tendency, recently, for love of country to be defined in very narrow terms, terms that would exclude those of us who hold higher aspirations for this country.  

Today I encourage us to reclaim the song, not letting anyone else define what it means to love this country. We are gathered because in some way, we all hope that America will make it “through the night, with a light from above,” – and from within, and from each other.  

We are here because we still aspire for America to be a place of blessing, the place of hope that it has been in the past for immigrants, like Yisrael Beilin, fleeing persecution, and that it has yet to be for so many other marginalized communities. Please sing that hope with us: 

God bless America, land that I love 

Stand beside her and guide her 

Through the night with the light from above 

From the mountains to the prairies 

To the oceans white with foam 

God bless America, my home sweet home 

God bless America, my home sweet home! 

 

Thank you. And do not let anyone tell you that your aspirations for what this country could be, or your expressions of love for this country, are un-American! 

 

Watch a short clip of Rabbi Ruhi Sophia at the rally.

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